Most het-cis men aren't incels. They aren't abusers. They aren't lonelier than the rest of humanity. And as voters, they are persuadable, given the correct messaging and underlying policy—which doesn't have to be MAGA horseshit to succeed. This meme and many others like it, with their broad condemnation of men, hurt Democratic politicians.
On the other side of the ledger, 52% of white women voted for Trump. They weren't bothered enough by men's behavior to pick a Black woman over an adjudicated rapist and convicted felon. Toxic femininity? Sure, if we're in the mood to alienate another persuadable group of humans.
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My making statements like these on social media, uncontroversial though they ought to be in the face of relevant statistics, has been enough to send proud progressive keyboard warriors after me like wolves to red meat. For example, a Facebook friend posted the above meme, I commented, and her friend group ran through every white-woke-sanctioned talking point in response. As a typical man, I was "fragile," "whining," "unwilling to be held accountable," and had succumbed to "not all men" excuse-making. One person said I was abetting violence by men against women.
When I pointed out that white women broke for Trump, I got three responses. One, a commenter said many more men voted for Trump than women, so don't come for women. Two, a commenter inferred that white women were duped or cowed into voting for Trump by overbearing, violent white men. And three, what about non-white women? When I said that responses such as theirs were why I can no longer operate along side them as an activist in support of women—it's futile to align with a losing strategy—I was accused of leaving my granddaughter to suffer the consequences of Republican cruelties.
There is a staggering degree of political ineptitude revealed in these standard-issue progressive reactions. Should we be surprised that men gravitated to the party that held a seat open for them? (Tim Walz was too late and too muted to have the desired effect.) How incompetent must Democrats be when white women, a natural constituency in post-Roe America, broke for Trump? And how tragically clueless would it be to blend non-white women, who voted overwhelming for Harris, into the same demographic group as white women, merely to make things look better for women and for Democrats than they might otherwise look? The first step in persuasion is to know whom to persuade.
As the most reliable of Democratic voters, as someone who shares the humanitarian goals of progressives, and as someone who regularly calls out Republicans on their abundant horseshit, it's fascinating to me that I encounter more wrath from progressives than from MAGA cultists. As comedian Marc Maron has
wryly noted:
Progressives have really gotta figure out how to deal with this buzzkill problem. I know these are important issues, but do you realize we annoyed the average American into fascism?
What the left does not understand, or does not care to know, is that posting a meme and commenting on a meme are political acts, whether intended as such or not. Some things are worth saying, consequences be damned. But not this dreck.